Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Monday, July 9, 2012
Anniversary Day-date!
I posted *last Thursday* that it was our 4th anniversary =) For anniversaries, I reallly like to stick with "traditional" gift-giving. I'm a little ol' fashioned & corny. 4th year gifts are: flowers and fruit (traditional); silk/linens/cloth (modern). This has been the hardest year for me to plan. Last month we picked up a grill for each other, for our anniversary...so no gifting was necessary but I still wanted to incorporate these traditions into our day. My hubby isn't a big flower OR fruit fan, and there isn't much clothing needed. I tried to find silky-type of boxers, but it was harder than I thought (I'm guessing because it isn't the holidays). And I also wanted to go DO something, not just dinner. I was driving one day and it hit me (because I passed it on the road): we could go to Hidden Lake Gardens. It is run by Michigan State University, and for a small fee you get into their beautiful grounds with hiking trails, picnic areas, and gorgeous views.
I then decided to pair it with a picnic of our favorite things: roast beef sandwiches (his), chocolate dipped strawberries (mine, but done in milk chocolate as is his fave), and rice homemade krispy treats (his). Along with ice water and we were packed! I did this all in secret, getting up before he left for work and having everything ready by the time he was home. He was happily caught off guard. It was such a simple date, yet needed! Being around a 3 year old constantly, the QUIET serenity of the gardens was ahhhh-mazing ;) We we almost rushed because storms were rolling in but we hiked 1 mile, and took cover when it rained in the tropical greenhouses.
You don't always have to spend $40-50 each year for your anniversary, sometimes a quick quiet get-away is just as fulfilling! It would also be super romantic to do a NIGHT picnic, take some blankets, citronella candle, and go gaze at the stars! What are some of your favorite, easy date ideas?
Thursday, July 5, 2012
4+ years of love
Today is our 4th year wedding anniversary. But for over 7 years I have
shared my life with this man. He has been with me thru my ups and the darkdowns. And I, with his. Sometimes when the going's gotten rough a few friends
have shaken their heads, calling me stubbornly stupid even, for sticking with it.
But marriage isn't just something you wake up one day and say "oh, I'm going to
throw this away." If something's worth fighting for, you will find a way. We have
realized we are not perfect, but we will work to be perfect together. "In sickness
and in health..." When people come down with the flu, they seek to heal their
bodies. Same should be with marriage, if something is ailing, work together
to make it right again. Until you are whole-one. I am so hopeful, and so
thankful to have such an honest, hardworking, and loving husband.
If anyone is reading this and has gone thru hard times in their
marriage...don't loose faith. If they want to get thru it with
you, find a way. Because after the terrible storm that
thunders on and on at night, the sunrise after is
one of the most beautiful things to behold.
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